Hello! In the spirit of getting things moving on the forums, I need your help! I'm working on a project concerning Event Development and I'm looking for ideas on short but impactful ceremonies. For example, when you are a young event, you might have 50 survivors and read all of their names. What happens when you have 1000 survivors? You can't read all of their names....so what do you do to honor them in a meaningful but brief way so they are not standing long at the track before taking their lap? I'm looking for suggestions/ideas for all ceremonies. Please share them here or email me at mckee_ames at hotmail.com. Yours in the fight, BJ Ames Volunteer High Plains Division

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recognizing 1,000 survivors!

It is hard to affectively recognize all 1,000 survivors. In years past we have had all survivors stand up as everyone recognized and congratulated them. then asked them to remain standing as we had their caregivers stand up (showing support). then we had all of the volunteers stand, at the end everyone was standing together as one cancer fighting team! it was extremely affective and meaningful to all!

Good Luck

~Cassie

Santa Clarita Relay For Life

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A good idea is to group them

A good idea is to group them according to years of survivorship. Another recognition is to make a large banner. Use like a shite bed sheet or something and place it on a table at the survivor registration tent. Have pink and purple markers there and get some pink and purple washable hand paint. Use a paper plate and put some paint on it, have the survivor pick a color and dip their hand in it and make a hand print on the banner. Take a colored marker and have them put their name under their hand print along with years of suvivorship. Let this be the banner they carry out front during their first lap and then place it as a stage skirt on the front of your stage after the survivor lap for all to see during the event. You can even raffle it off later in the night  to raise some money.



Mini Survivor Ceremony

At this year's Relay our Survivor Chair did a really cool thing.  She had all of the Survivor's that had been diagnosed during that year stand at the starting line of the track and then asked all of the 2 year survivors to stand behind them and then all of the 3 year behind them and so on.  Then she told all of the 1st years to turn around, showing them that there is hope and you should have seen the look on their faces, it still gives me goose bumps.  All of the many year survivors were waving to them and calling out that they could make it.  It was AWESOME!! We will definitely be doing that again next year. 

 

Melanee Sears
Chair
Richland, MI


This year we had a really

This year we had a really nice opening ceremony. Usually we have the mayor come out and make a speech (this year we had a rep of his because he had a daddy daughter dance to attend).

Anyway, we usually have him speak and then we go through the years people have been cancer free and they release purple balloons as we count up and they get to their year. Then this year, we passed out medals and roses to all of the survivors. Then they got to go finish their dinner and eat dessert. They were really touched by the roses and the medals. I think they liked the medals because it's something they can keep forever.



survivors,

BJ,

I have been the survivor chair for our relay for 4 years now and we have never read the names for privacy issues.  However, we reconize the survivors by giving them gifts, we provide food, and entertainment.  this has seemed to work for us.  Let me know if I can help 



Closing Ceremonies
What kind of things do you do for the Closing Ceremonies? There always seems to be not as many people at the end and was wondering when you give awards or what types of things other 24-hour relays do for their closing. Suzanne M. Priestley LaGrange Co. IN Relay for Life
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Suzanne M. Priestley LaGrange Co. IN Relay for Life



We present ALL our awards at
We present ALL our awards at the end of the event.  This seems to keep most people around till the end.  Laura
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Laura



closing ceremonies

Hi Suzanne, a good way is to schedule a closing ceremony seperate from Relay within 2 wks. This brings everybody back, give away trophies, cert, awards, etc. Feed them and they will come back, its alot of fun this way cause everyone is tired at closing, so we wrap it up quick. Tell $$ earned so far, thank everyone, etc..But the real fun is at the party after everyone is recouped! Hope its helpful!


Closing Ceremonies/ How to Keep People All Night
Suzanne, There are quite a few things I have heard as ways to keep people around, but it can be a challenge to be sure. Some events have incentives that last all night (hourly prizes), and the biggest prize in the morning (I have heard of used car giveaways, 2 plane ticket giveaways and the like) that at least encourage people to come back in the morning. At least one event talked of having "stamps" on a Relay Passport each hour of the night for you, and whoever turned in the passport with all the stamps could be eligible in a prize drawing (that time, I think it was a used car). Here are some of the ideas that people have shared: ---------- • Country Line Dancing – The Essex MD event has country dancing from 10PM - 2 AM and the Pasadena MD Relay has dancing all night. Even in the rain, they had dancers on the floor all four hours, including a lot of kids! • Coffee Bar – Provide “designer” coffee for a small donation! (thanks to Squire5 for that idea!) • Have a Midnight raffle - you must be present to win. Sell tickets throughout the day for $1. Double tickets if you buy between 1am-6am. Ask each team to create a gift basket for prizes. Wow - I just thought of that! Michael, let's do that! (thanks to Squire5 for that idea!) • Kids Relay Held in the Morning, to keep people there! • Games Thru the Night - Hold team relay games with prizes throughout the night to motivate people to stay. • Jail and Bail – Here’s a great idea! “A team in our relay does a "Judge Judy" theme. You can relate part of it with the Western Sheriff theme - We get a large outside dog cage and make that our jail. Then the team members run around locking ppl up or others can have a sheriff lock someone up for them. Bail to get out is usually set at $5.00. The jailbirds yell at friends to come out and donate some cash. KIDS love this.” – This can go all night, to keep people on their toes. Thanks to Tao! • Karaoke – Very effective! One suggestion – make people make a $x donation to get certain people to stop singing!!!!!!!! • Lap Poker - We had two (2) volunteers on the track at the start (balloon arch) with decks of cards. The participants started and made five laps around the track for each lap they made they would receive a card. The best hand won. We had pen and pencil sets that had been donated, along with RFL logo items that we would give away. • Lip Sync Contest – Hold a lip sync contest late at night, where contestants can participate for great prizes! Thanks to Stacy C. and the Vienna, VA Relay For Life for this great idea! See the following link for a flyer and registration form: http://www.acsrelay.org/Darn_Good_Ideas/19-On-Site_Activities_Late_Night_Lip_Sync_Contest_Registration_Form.doc http://www.acsrelay.org/Darn_Good_Ideas/19-On-Site_Activities_Late_Night_Lip_Sync_Contest_Flyer.doc • Midnight Pizza Party – Something to motivate people to stay! • Movies – Show movies all night long to keep your volunteers entertained. Have them beginning after your midnight activity and continuing until 6 AM (or when you have your first morning activities) to keep people who are awake entertained… What you need: o Lots of movies o A VCR or DVD Player o a “Light Pro” projector - Get a local business to loan you it and then hook it up the VCR/DVD o Bring a screen to project the movie, or even use the side of the building. Other events hang a white sheet from two poles and project on there, but make sure that you get all four ends taut. o Have cookies and milk to serve with the movie (thanks to Squire5 for that idea!) • Musical Chairs - A play on the old game we would play as kids. We lined up about 25 chairs in opposite directions and everyone would take a seat. The DJ would start playing a song and then stop, each time he would start playing again, we would take away 1 or more chairs to make it interesting. The DJ would speed up the music as we were down to 6 chairs or less. It was fun --- almost worthy of America's Funnies Home Videos. • Not So NewlyWed Game – A variation on the Newlywed Game Theme… (Squire5, Sabrina & Tara - thanks for the idea! ) • Pajama Party • Relay Olympics – have a series of “Olympic Events” at your Relay on the hour thru the night, and crown a child and adult champion. – Make some of the activities happen early in the morning, and give a team award for the most hours participated (every hour on the hour, all night)… Maybe a traveling trophy! • Scavenger Hunt – Hold a scavenger hunt with a new item each hour, and a great prize in the morning! (Thanks to many people for this idea, including Traci and Squire5) • Themed Laps Each Hour with Great Music – Have music that goes all night (not too loud!) and theme each hour to give people who like different kinds of music something to look forward to! – give the team that embodies that theme an award at the end of the hour. You could also have a Live DJ… Make sure it is ok with your teams, your site, and your surrounding community… Consider turning the music down after 11pm till 7am based on your community/event, but at least between the hours of 2am and 5am to ensure that people have a little relaxing time - that will get them thru the morning. IF you have a DJ, you could have a Boombox for music from 1-4AM and let him/her take a break. Some example Theme Lap ideas are: o Musical Hours  Latin Hour  Big Band Hour  Swing Hour  70’s Hour  80’s Hour  Oldies Hour  Rock N Roll Hour  The Love Hour (allow dedications for a donation!) o Crazy Hours (Thanks to Zoomzoom for finding these and sharing!)  Hawaiian Laps  Crazy Hat Laps  Pajama Laps  Red, White & Blue Laps  Cardboard Box Laps – Give each team a cardboard box to decorate, and have a race  Limbo Contest Lap – Have everyone lap, and have limbo sticks at different points of the track that get progressively lower; see who makes it the farthest around the track!  Best Formal Wear Lap (thanks to Damyers65)  Line Dancing Lap (thanks to Damyers65)  Limbo Contest Lap (thanks to Damyers65)  Chicken Dance Lap (thanks to Damyers65)  Bunny Hop Lap (thanks to Damyers65)  Kazoo Lap (thanks to Damyers65)  Best Patriotic Outfit (thanks to Damyers65)  Pajama Party Lap (thanks to Damyers65)  Neck Tie Relay (thanks to Damyers65)  Team Spirit Lap (thanks to Damyers65) o Ways to Mix and Mingle:  Meet a Friend Laps - “At this year's relay we are having meet a friend laps. It's a neat way to get to know some of your fellow relayers. It's fun too! We are doing a reverse lap too.” (thanks to camskaos)  Dance Laps – Have people dance around the track – give them dance cards – when they dance with someone, have that person ‘sign’ their dance card and write down one interesting fact about themselves – who ever has danced with the most people at the end of the hour (and reports to the MC with their dance card filled out) wins a prize – make it a really cool one (thanks to RM!)  Find your sole-mate – “…People are given one shoe and they have to find the person that has the matching one. When they find on another, they run to the microphone. Inside each shoe is part of a cancer fact. (Each shoe of the pair has half the fact on it)The duo reads the fact, and they win” – Thanks to lonezodiac! Hope this helps... Email me for more ideas or a copy in Word. Ramesh Moorthy Webmaster, acsrelay.org, Ideas for Volunteers Blogging about Relay at acsrelay blog rflvolunteer@gmail.com
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Ramesh Moorthy

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Blogging: acsrelay blog

Moderator: RelayForLife



Ideas for Ceremonies
I think the ideas shared are great ones... One of my favorites is an opening/remembrance script that doesn't read all the survivor names: Opening Ceremony Dedication I have also heard Survivors called to the track by type of cancer, but not everyone likes that. Ramesh Moorthy Webmaster, acsrelay.org, Ideas & Information for Volunteers by Volunteers. Blogging about Relay at acsrelay.blogspot.com Volunteer Content Advisor, South Atlantic Division Relay Link Extranet Volunteer, Baltimore, MD rflvolunteer@gmail.com
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Ramesh Moorthy

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Blogging: acsrelay blog

Moderator: RelayForLife



Our Survivor Ceremony
This year we had the Mayor of our city present a coin medallion to each survivor while Miss Idaho Falls read their names. The Mayor was very genuine with each person and made wonderful comments to them. It seemed to make them feel very important to the community. He has asked to be involved again this coming year! Jeannette Event Chair, Bonneville County Idaho Falls
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Jeannette
Event Chair, Bonneville County
Idaho Falls



Short ceremonies
We had more parts to the ceremony follow this, but a good way to have a short opening and get others than the committee/chair people involved was to have people read the poem I Walked ARound a Track Today - each person read two lines - 7 people - they were a cross section of Relay - team captains, volunteers, sponsors, etc - and it only took a minute but was very impactful and got people feeling it was EVERYONE's Relay - and avoided the usual "ugh, I wonder if this person is going to be too long or boring" worry that most people have at any ceremony or speech. I can get you a copy of the poem if you like, but I think most staff people have it. Dont wait for a life threatening crisis to make you realize what really counts in your life.
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And when all's been said and done

Its the things that are given, not won.

Gonzo



Poem
Do you mind posting the poem "I Walked Around a Track Today"? I would love to see it. Thanks
Poem: I Walked For You, I Walked For Me (I Walked Around...)

Here it is:

 

I Walked For You, I Walked For Me – Here is a poem written by breast cancer survivor Jackie Rutkovich found at the following site:

 

http://www.ibcmemorial.org/565.html

I Walked For You, I Walked For Me

I walked around a track today:

I walked to help a disease go away.

I walked because there is a need.

I walked that bodies could be freed.

I walked to give a small child hope:

I walked to help someone cope.

I walked for a husband or a wife;

I walked to help prelong a life.

I walked with my head held high;

I walked for that one about to die.

I walked excitedly not demure;

I walked to help find a cure.

I walked for everyone to see;

I walked for you, I walked for me.

It was quoted in an article by Andrew Hirsch, who is a Staff Writer for the Coshocton Tribune in

Coshocton, Ohio (date of article: Saturday, May 15, 2004)

 

 

Ramesh Moorthy Webmaster,

acsrelay.org, Ideas for Volunteers

Blogging about Relay at acsrelay blog

Volunteer Content Advisor, SA Division Relay Web

rflvolunteer@gmail.com

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Ramesh Moorthy

Former Webmaster: acsrelay.org- you can e-mail me for Ideas for Volunteers

Blogging: acsrelay blog

Moderator: RelayForLife



READ the Why We Relay video words for opening or closing ceremon

We had alternating readers read the Walk Around the Track poem last year, and this year we plan to read the words that are spoken in the Why We Relay video, which puts me in tears every time I see it. (about 50 times now?) We will have various people read it, taking turns. You can find the video if you go to the home page of this site, click on About, and its the first video on that page. If someone writes out the words before I get to it, could you post them here? Thanks!! I love this because lots of people get to share in the opening ceremony, in just a few minutes, there is no uncertainty about how long someone might talk, etc.

Oh and btw if you want someone new to Relay to "get it" real fast, just tell them to watch this. Its one click into the site and loads instantly. I have waited on the phone while people watched it....

 

 

As long as I know I have love, I can make it. - Stevie Wonder

 


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And when all's been said and done

Its the things that are given, not won.

Gonzo



Ceremonies _Survivors
You may want to scroll names on a big screen for events that have lots of survivors. Technology now allows alot of things to happen that were not possible before. If you have a projector and a laptop - you could even do a slide show that could run all night.
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Jewell



Short? Maybe. IMPACTFUL? Absolutely.
BJ We scroll all survivors names on our jumbotron throughout the event from sundown to sunup. Several years ago we had to stop reading all the names. That was the year I chaired the ceremony--I was not at all popular until they experienced the new ceremony. We focused the ceremony almost entirely on music and made it into 30-40 minutes of personal reflection with the comfort of a few thousand people who know better than most what you're experiencing. We used to have problems with kids and even adults talking during the ceremony. It is completely, absolutely silent, now. I suspect we could keep our lap of silence continuing on and on and on if we left the field lights down. It's an incredibly meaningful ceremony that allows each person to take from it what they need. Good luck. Mar'Ellen Felin Relay For Life of Springfield, Event Director Highplains Taskforce, Communications/Marketing Taskforce Chair
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Mar'Ellen Felin
Relay For Life of Springfield, Event Director
Highplains Taskforce, Communications/Marketing Taskforce Chair



hello BJ
We honor our survivors for a second time by inviting them back to the luminaria ceremony, After they are finshed with there first lap and awarded their "medals" we also give them a invite to receive a small gift at the registrion booth, they just had to bring their invite back 30 min. before the luminaria ceremony to the booth, then they were given purple glow necklaces to wear, it was announced during the lum. ceremony that all those with purple glow necklaces standing here before us those are our Hope our Survivors, then towards the end of the ceremony we had there names scolling down on a huge screen from a power point. I think it worked out pretty good. Renee Riddle Tracy, Ca.
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Renee Riddle Relay Lifer



Ceremonies
Tracy Stourac Relay For Life of Elmhurst and Villa Park Event Chair I love this idea of honoring the survivors in attendance during the luminaria ceremony. We also have a luminaria slide show that includes the names that are on the luminaria (prior to event sales) as well as pictures and messages family members have provided- along with a $10 donation. This is one of our most cherished moments of our event.
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Tracy Stourac Relay For Life of Elmhurst Illinois Event Chair