Elyse Edwards
Posts: 1
Joined: 2008-02-04

It often surprises me how many lives the effects of cancer have touched... because for so long I have felt like the only one.

I am starting a Relay team this year because both of my parents have cancer and Iw wish not a single more soul to endure such hardships, especially not children, daughters, sons, and relatives. When I was in 7th grade of Middle School, just four years ago for myself, my mom was diagnosed with cancer. My dad was diagnosed in his teenage years. Even after the diagnosis, assessment, surgery, chemo, radiation, and continuing appointments, I still do not talk of it much. The week that my mother was diagnosed was coincidentally Spring break and upon returning to school I uttered not a single word of what had happened... looking back I find it surprising, but at the moment it just seemend natural. I thought it was my responsability to reconcile with what was happening, but looking back I think it should have been anything but.

Everyone out there needs to be aware of the massive amounts of support available to them when dealing with the effects of cancer on loved ones. I have always avoided speaking of it, discussing it, or mentioning it, and for those very reasons it slightly frightens me that I am starting a team. I know I will have to confront issues and feeling that I have surpressed for so long.

I thank everyone who has ever been involved with Relay and I hope I am able to communicate with my community as to how donating a couple dozen hours to a cause can prevent years of suffering in someone elses life.

Again, thank you, and good luck to all.

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Elyse

Issaquah, WA



bama911gal
Posts: 22
Joined: 2007-05-20
Welcome

Elyse,
Welcome to Relay...you will love it and become addicted, although I will not kid you this year will be tough coming to grips with emotions but it is so worth it!  I completely understand about picking up, going on and not "burdening" those with our issues.   My first diagnosis of endiometrial cancer came in 1980 and although it was a long road of surgical procedures, appointments, etc. me and my family endured it, didnt' talk much of it and did what had to be done.  I became involved with Relay in 1996 but not as a survivor, I came in to support my best friend and family we had lost her mom to cancer in 1995.  I was again diagnosed in 2004 with laryngeal cancer and through my family and friends made it through.  In 2005 I took my first walk as a Cancer Survivor and it was awesome and very emotional.  I never considered myself a cancer survivor from my first diagnosis, not sure why...but didn't until recently.  This past month I have been told my cancer has returned for a third time, we are still awaiting results of test to determine what we are dealing with.  Until then I keep plugging along and have learned how to share my story, ask for help (still hard) and accept all prayers!

Good luck and if you need anything please don't hesitate to email me with the subject of Relay or check out this awesome website...there is so much info here, it can be overwhelming! 

Cheri Palmer

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Cheri Palmer
Event Chair for North Shelby County AL Relay For Life
Three Time Survivor YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!